A person who has had 2 abortions is one of the most qualified to change their opinion. Aborting two babies may have felt like the right and/or easy decision at the time, but it is a decision that you are reminded of every time you see a child. I do not know her, but it seems like your ex could be suffering from guilt or regret and that has driven her pro-life stance. Hypocrisy is possible too!